Coping with Trauma-related Dissociation

Skills Training For Patients And Therapists

Onno van der Hart, Kathy Steele, Suzette Boon

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Brief summary

This book offers a guide for understanding and healing from trauma-related dissociation. It provides practical skills for managing internal “parts,” grounding yourself in the present, and moving from inner conflict to a state of collaboration and stability.

Who it's for

This is for anyone who experiences a fragmented sense of self, memory gaps, or emotional overwhelm as a result of complex trauma.

Coping with Trauma-related Dissociation

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Building Trust and Safety with Your Inner Parts

Jolanda Treffers once felt like she was pushing a wheelbarrow of unpredictable frogs down a bumpy road. These frogs were hidden parts of herself that felt like shameful monsters. She struggled alone until a major obstacle forced her to seek help. This required a deep leap of faith in both a therapist and herself. By learning to trust, those internal monsters became supportive friends, and the load grew lighter as she developed skills to work with her inner parts. Healing begins when you believe you are worthy of being seen and supported.

Living with complex dissociation often feels like navigating without a map. Healing starts by turning trauma into manageable concepts and understanding how internal parts function. This moves you from confusion to a rational approach to your own mind. Recovery works best when shared with professional support, requiring a balance of effort and patience. Pushing too hard leads to overwhelm, but avoiding the work stalls progress. Grounding yourself in the present helps you maintain a sustainable pace. Knowledge alone doesn't create change; consistent practice does. Every skill is a step toward stability that you can adapt to your needs. Through collaboration, you build the resilience needed for a healthier life.

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About the author

Onno van der Hart

Onno van der Hart is a Dutch psychologist, psychotherapist, and researcher recognized as an international expert in psychotraumatology. He is an Emeritus Professor of Psychopathology of Chronic Traumatization at Utrecht University and a Past-President of the International Society for Traumatic Stress Studies. His primary contributions to the field include his extensive work on trauma-related dissociation and the development of the theory of structural dissociation of the personality.

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