Coping with Trauma-Related Dissociation

Skills Training for Patients and Therapists

Onno van der Hart, Kathy Steele, Suzette Boon

13 min read
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Brief summary

This book offers a guide for understanding and healing from trauma-related dissociation. It provides practical skills for managing internal “parts,” grounding yourself in the present, and moving from inner conflict to a state of collaboration and stability.

Who it's for

This is for anyone who experiences a fragmented sense of self, memory gaps, or emotional overwhelm as a result of complex trauma.

Coping with Trauma-Related Dissociation

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Getting Started with Safety and Trust

Many people with trauma-related dissociation feel ashamed, confused, or frightened by what happens inside their minds. They may hide their struggles for years, trying to manage alone while feeling pulled in different directions by thoughts, feelings, and reactions they do not fully understand. Over time, that burden often becomes too heavy to carry without help.

Recovery begins with safety, patience, and trust. Trust does not appear all at once. It grows slowly as a person learns that support can be steady, respectful, and safe. Working with a skilled therapist is often an important part of this process, because healing moves best at a manageable pace rather than through pressure or force.

Progress depends on learning practical skills, not just understanding ideas. Reading about dissociation can be helpful, but real change comes from practicing grounding, self-observation, and daily routines again and again. These small steps create stability, and stability makes deeper healing possible.

It also helps to approach recovery with self-respect. The goal is not to get rid of parts of yourself or to prove strength by never needing help. The goal is to build a life that feels safer, calmer, and more connected, both inside and outside.

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About the author

Onno van der Hart

Onno van der Hart is a Dutch psychologist, psychotherapist, and researcher recognized as an international expert in psychotraumatology. He is an Emeritus Professor of Psychopathology of Chronic Traumatization at Utrecht University and a Past-President of the International Society for Traumatic Stress Studies. His primary contributions to the field include his extensive work on trauma-related dissociation and the development of the theory of structural dissociation of the personality.

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