Etched in Sand

A True Story of Five Siblings Who Survived an Unspeakable Childhood on Long Island

Regina Calcaterra

9 min read
1m 7s intro

Brief summary

Etched in Sand chronicles Regina Calcaterra’s childhood marked by homelessness, abuse, and the foster care system. It details how she and her siblings relied on each other to survive, and how she eventually used education and the law to advocate for herself and others.

Who it's for

Readers interested in memoirs about overcoming systemic failure, childhood poverty, and the realities of the foster care system.

Etched in Sand

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Introduction to a Life of Survival

In the quiet aftermath of Hurricane Sandy, Regina Calcaterra surveyed the destruction of Long Island from a military helicopter alongside state leaders. Looking down at the charred remains of Lindenhurst, the town where she was born, she felt a profound connection to the land. The devastation of the storm mirrored the chaotic environment her mother had created decades earlier, yet seeing the damage from above solidified her resolve to protect the region.

Growing up as one of five siblings in a fatherless home, Calcaterra experienced a childhood defined by homelessness and severe instability. She and her siblings—Cherie, Camille, Norman, and Rosie—often found refuge on the shores of Long Island. They would build sandcastles only to watch the tide wash them away, a cycle of building and rebuilding that became a blueprint for their lives.

Their mother, Cookie, was deeply troubled and subjected the children to unpredictable bouts of violence and neglect. The siblings quickly learned that their survival depended entirely on their ability to cooperate and protect one another. They developed a silent, highly coordinated routine to manage their mother's volatile moods and secure basic necessities.

Despite the profound trauma of her early years, Regina eventually transformed her experiences into a driving force for public service. Her journey from a struggling child to a successful public official was fueled by a deep understanding of systemic failures. She recognized early on that government and community resources serve as vital lifelines for children facing extraordinary struggles.

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About the author

Regina Calcaterra

Regina Calcaterra is an accomplished attorney and founding partner of a law firm who has held numerous high-profile public sector positions, including serving as Chief Deputy to the Suffolk County Executive and as Executive Director for two of New York Governor Andrew Cuomo's investigatory commissions. As a New York Times best-selling author and advocate for children in foster care, she leverages her expertise and personal history to champion social justice causes and promote the well-being of at-risk youth. Her contributions have inspired action in foster care adoption and have been widely recognized through various awards for her legal and advocacy efforts.

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