Women Who Love Too Much

When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change

Robin Norwood

12 min read
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Brief summary

Women Who Love Too Much explains how romantic obsession can function like an addiction, driven by childhood wounds and a confusion between pain and love. It offers a path to recovery by treating this pattern as the core problem and learning to build a life based on self-care and healthy intimacy.

Who it's for

This is for anyone who repeatedly finds themselves in painful, obsessive relationships with troubled or emotionally unavailable partners.

Women Who Love Too Much

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When Love Becomes an Addiction

Some women enter relationships looking for love and gradually lose themselves in obsession, fear, and emotional pain. Their attention becomes fixed on a man who is distant, troubled, or unavailable, and the relationship begins to control their mood, health, and sense of worth. Waiting for a call, analyzing every word, and trying to prevent abandonment become the center of daily life.

This pattern looks like devotion from the outside, but it often works like an addiction. The excitement of a new romance brings relief from loneliness and self-doubt, much like a drug brings temporary escape. As the relationship becomes more painful, the craving often grows stronger instead of weaker.

Without the relationship, many women feel panic, emptiness, or withdrawal-like distress. They may become depressed, anxious, unable to sleep, or unable to focus on anything else. The man is no longer just a partner. He has become a way to avoid deeper pain.

Change rarely happens through willpower alone. The pattern is too old, too emotional, and too tied to identity. Recovery begins when a woman stops treating the relationship as the answer to her suffering and starts treating the pattern itself as the problem that needs care.

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About the author

Robin Norwood

Robin Norwood is a licensed marriage and family therapist known for her work in the field of addiction, with a specialty in treating co-alcoholism and relationship addiction. Her bestselling books, translated into over thirty languages, explore the dynamics of unhealthy relationships and provide guidance for recovery, drawing from her fifteen years of experience in the field. Through her work, she has significantly influenced the way people understand and address relationship addiction and the patterns of loving too much.

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